Category: Marriage & Partnership

  • Just Two: The New Reality for Empty Nest Couples

    Just Two: The New Reality for Empty Nest Couples

    As an empty nest couple with no grandchildren, my husband and I are rediscovering the joy of being “just two” again. So when we agreed to watch our children’s dogs for the weekend while both sets of kids were out of town, I teased him that this would be low-key grandparent practice.  Although all four…

  • 33 Lessons from Marriage

    33 Lessons from Marriage

    Every anniversary is a milestone   Milestones mark significant points along a journey. In the case of marriage, the “milestone” anniversaries are generally the decades, or the quarter or half centuries. But I prefer to believe every anniversary is a milestone. After all, each year represents 365 more days of mutual commitment to the institution…

  • The Toothpaste Test

    The Toothpaste Test

    Living in harmony starts with the toothpaste test As another wedding anniversary looms I find myself thinking back to those early years of learning to live together in harmony. The difference between deciding to marry and living everyday life together is like fishing for sardines and landing a 100-pound halibut. The reality is so much…