• If Parenting Had Do-Overs

    Being an empty-nest parent is like being a Monday morning quarterback. You find yourself looking back on a game you’ve already played, and analyzing what you could have done differently.  Prior to motherhood, I was a reasonably confident decision-maker. Parenting…

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    33 Lessons from Marriage

    Every anniversary is a milestone   Milestones mark significant points along a journey. In the case of marriage, the “milestone” anniversaries are generally the decades, or the quarter or half centuries. But I prefer to believe every anniversary is a…

  • Memories Hide Within the Clutter

    Why do we keep the stuff we keep?   I alternately wage war and make peace with the clutter in my house. Occasionally my tolerance of “stuff” reaches critical mass and I go on a rampage against it. In those…

  • Gratitude Combats Midlife Crisis

     A Weekend of Milestones Prompts Gratitude, Not a Midlife Crisis I laughingly told a friend that this weekend was a midlife crisis in the making as my son graduated from college and my daughter turned 21. But while these milestones…