• Zucchini

    The Great Zucchini Debate

    Some Families Debate Politics, We Argue Over Vegetables “Look at the size of this one!” Many summer memories on my in-laws’ farm featured Dad emerging triumphant from the garden, holding an enormous zucchini aloft. Mom, on the porch, admired and…

  • Pizza

    When Meal Planning Derails the Meal Making

    The path to my kitchen is paved with good intentions Meal planning starts with the best of intentions. Every time I enter the kitchen I intend to create an amazing, nutritious meal my family will love. Unfortunately, the reality of…

  • A Conundrum in My Kitchen

    A full fridge means leftovers are at critical mass There’s a conundrum in my kitchen. While most people grocery shop when their refrigerator is empty, I have to shop when mine is full. It took me awhile to identify the…

  • Food is Love and Cookbooks are Sacrilegious

    Lessons from an Italian Grandmother My Italian grandmother taught me that food is love. She lived ten minutes from us growing up and never came over empty-handed, so my siblings and I were the recipients of an awful lot of…

  • Turning Outlaws into In-Laws

    Saying “I do” doesn’t immediately make you family.   Turning outlaws into in-laws isn’t easy, because marrying into a family and joining a family are two different things. Marriage is a moment, but joining is a journey. I’ve witnessed this…

  • Recipe rebel

    The Recipe Rebel

    There are two types of people in the world: those who read the directions, and those who should have.   I am usually a rule follower. I don’t drink milk beyond its sell-by date. I launder my whites and darks…