Category: Parenting & Raising Kids

  • How to Help Your Kids Find Suitable Spouses

    How to Help Your Kids Find Suitable Spouses

    “Mommy, I’m going to marry you when I grow up!” My three-year-old son blurted out this declaration one night during his bedtime routine. “Silly boy,” I said. “I’m already married to Daddy.” I went on to explain that God had someone else in mind for him. “Someday you will meet a girl who you will…

  • If Parenting Had Do-Overs

    If Parenting Had Do-Overs

    Being an empty-nest parent is like being a Monday morning quarterback. You find yourself looking back on a game you’ve already played, and analyzing what you could have done differently.  Prior to motherhood, I was a reasonably confident decision-maker. Parenting turned me into a second-guesser. How would my decisions impact my children’s character and competency…

  • A Conundrum in My Kitchen

    A Conundrum in My Kitchen

    A full fridge means leftovers are at critical mass There’s a conundrum in my kitchen. While most people grocery shop when their refrigerator is empty, I have to shop when mine is full. It took me awhile to identify the reason. In my house, a full fridge does not mean there are food choices in…

  • The Huge Boss, the Small Boss, and Dogs That Don’t Listen

    The Huge Boss, the Small Boss, and Dogs That Don’t Listen

    Some days, I just want to be the huge boss Our family roles have been defined since my son’s preschool days. According to his 4-year-old reckoning, Dad is the huge boss and I am the small boss. Since this pronouncement happened over 20 years ago, I can only guess at the criteria my son used…